Damn, astrology has really fucked me up. I used to hate everyone and now I’m a hippie. It’s whatevs.
I really get so annoyed that people don’t believe that all groups of people have valid things to say about topics. Ultimately, we are all different people who have had different experiences, who were raised in different environments, who have different thinking and personality types, etc, therefore, we all live in different realities. These opinions and realities that people live in aren’t simply “right” or “wrong” because that is a man-made term or thought process, which differs among people. We need to be more understanding and more patient when learning about others’ views and we need to be better at sharing, teaching, and communicating our ideas and beliefs with people in a positive way, rather than treating them with such disrespect.
But I don’t know, maybe it’s just because I’m a privileged white female.
Fire(aries, sagittarius, leo) signs tend to have no other choice than being right. These people like to have the last word and if you’re in an argument with them, you either lose, they remove themselves for a time, or they try to show you how stupid you are or why you’re wrong. When in an argument, these people can tend to take things the wrong way. Fire tend to argue because of righteousness and/or equality.
Earth (taurus, virgo, capricorn) signs like to be right. Earth signs dont need the last word as long as they believe they made their point. Their demeanor is usually one of arrogance when they argue, mostly because they typically only see things from their point of view.Fire and earth, especially same gender, can really butt heads because both signs like so much to be correct, to be leaders. Earth tends to argue because of their enjoyment of being the leader.
Air (libra, gemini, aquarius) signs don’t need the last word in terms of an argument so much as they need the last under your breath mutterings. Air signs typically don’t understand what the fuss is and why people are upset or arguing…even though half the reason is probably because they just aren’t emotionally in touch enough to feel tensions or problems. Air signs typically don’t like to argue, they are generally straight forward, they don’t have to be right, they will simply choose if they want or don’t want to deal with you and your arguing. Air signs argue because they don’t understand why the fuck you’re arguing or your thought process.
Water (scorpio, cancer, pisces) signs don’t like to argue. Water signs prefer harmony within people, however seeking this harmony often times leads to waters conflict. Water signs are known for holding their emotions and thoughts back until they explode. This practice is what most water arguments are about. Water signs don’t tend to argue about real world things, they tend to argue but things that deal with emotion, famly, relationships. Water signs don’t need the last word as long as they “know” they are right. Water signs argue because they have had their feelings hurt or feel they have been treated unfairly in some way.
It used to be random, then it was scorpio stuff, now I don’t even know. It’s jist random shit, mostly astrology stuff, at least what I personally write about.
It’s not that they’re “neat freaks”, they just like to look, feel, and seem fresh, clean, calm, cool, and collected a majority of the time.
Well, one thing we have to remember is that despite signs, we all still have different environments and biology that also design who we are. So to give one perfect answer for every Scorpio girl won’t work.
Some Scorpios are great texters and some are not, while some are great at speaking in person and others are better at texting, it all just kind of depends. If you can get us talking either way, you probably have at least a half chance with us and I am quite sure the conversation wouldn’t be boring. We like to talk about nearly everything…save our feelings. We have lots of opinions, we just don’t typically share, so ask us how we feel about things, that might show that someone is genuinely interested and could potentially expedite our opening up.
Attitudes vary. Some Scorpios are more on the cynical side, while some are more on the positive side, this mostly depends on upbringing. We can either come across as introverted or as extroverted depending on what kind of situation we are in, which can make it difficult to tell whether or not someone is a Scorpio. We generally are a work first, play later kind of person. We tend to be on the serious side when it comes to life, but once life is handled and at ease, we are crazy, goofy motherfuckers.
One thing that separates us from others is that most of our actions are not done selfishly. Now, some Scorpios can be very selfish, especially if grown in an environment in which they raised themselves, but for the most part, Scorpio considers the people around them before making decisions or anything because we care most about our loved ones. Everything we do, we keep our loved ones in mind, and when we slip up, we are devastated. We care so deeply for the people we love, whether friends, family or significant other.
One problem we tend to have in relationships is that people don’t listen to us when we speak. Often times, people will take a Scorpios sentence and focus on one main thing in that sentence and then proceed to take it the wrong way, but when speaking to a Scorpio, every word matters because many of the times there are a hundred factors that go into what Scorpio is thinking and trying to relay in message. This is also why Scorpio can have a tendency to read too deeply into what someone else is saying.
They want to create it on their own. They are success driven when in a positive state of mind and can/will accomplish many of the things they set their mind to. They are some of the most determined people in the zodiac. In this determination they can lose sight of the people around them, don’t take it personally, reach out to them.
It’s not that we don’t have goals, dreams, or aspirations, it’s that we don’t find those things to be as important as experiences, emotions, love, fun, etc. We are signs that think we must really enjoy and live the life we are given, rather than signs who create a life out of what they’ve been given.
I want ghost stories.